Health Boards
Tue-15-11-2011, 03:39 AM
Hi!
I don't have psoriasis, but better half of me have it. And the purpose of me coming here is to get some advice from females who have this.
short story before my question
me nd my gf have been together for over 3 years now. 1 year ago she found out that she has psoriasis. after that she changed alot. We live in long distant relationship right now coz of my studies. Every time we see each other and as a healthy relationship get a lil intimate she starts hiding herself nd saying things like its ugly etc. I have tried alot to say that i like the way u are nd it doesnt bother me. but in vain. Sometimes when she has bad times nd i try to comfort she says what u would know.. well that might be true :( .
So the question is how should I tell her without making her feel like Im just sympathizing with her nd how should i be with her overall. Before this disease we fought equally (that's a part of healthy relationship also
) but right now I`m afraid coz if i say something she immediately thinks that I`m not happy with her coz of psoriasis 
:( . (im a lil jealous kind of guy nd shes beautiful so when guys try something nd im not there.. it boils my blood .. 
)
Im myself a medicine student nd the future plan is to become a psoriasis specialist
<---- haha didnt expect to see those kind of smileys in here
I don't have psoriasis, but better half of me have it. And the purpose of me coming here is to get some advice from females who have this.
short story before my question
me nd my gf have been together for over 3 years now. 1 year ago she found out that she has psoriasis. after that she changed alot. We live in long distant relationship right now coz of my studies. Every time we see each other and as a healthy relationship get a lil intimate she starts hiding herself nd saying things like its ugly etc. I have tried alot to say that i like the way u are nd it doesnt bother me. but in vain. Sometimes when she has bad times nd i try to comfort she says what u would know.. well that might be true :( .
So the question is how should I tell her without making her feel like Im just sympathizing with her nd how should i be with her overall. Before this disease we fought equally (that's a part of healthy relationship also
) but right now I`m afraid coz if i say something she immediately thinks that I`m not happy with her coz of psoriasis :( . (im a lil jealous kind of guy nd shes beautiful so when guys try something nd im not there.. it boils my blood .. )Im myself a medicine student nd the future plan is to become a psoriasis specialist
<---- haha didnt expect to see those kind of smileys in here